The Dilema...

So after last weeks disaster of a date, I got back on track this weekend with the 23 year old. As I've said before, we weren't brought together to solve any world issues, but we certainly have a good time when we're out. There is a big dilema though...

Couple my fear of committment and her over protective parents, there can only be trouble ahead. After saturday's date, I wanted to ask her back to mine, but ended up sending her off at the train station with a teenage like snog. I'm 33 so shouldn't be displaying this type of behaviour, but I'm quite frankly scared of what may happen if we end up sleeping together.

I have visions of bedding their little princess and the Maltese dad warning me that if I do anything to upset his little girl, I'll be sleeping with the fishes before long. Going on past performances with the other sex, there is a high chance somewhere along the line I will be doing wrong by his angel, sooner rather than later. I have to weigh up the pros and cons. On one hand I get to bed and potentially date a cute younger girl, but on the other hand, if I fuck up which is highly likely, I may not get to see in my 34th year. It is a tough one.....

Anyway, I'm off on holiday for the long weekend with friends from tomorrow, so will have time to reflect and no doubt get some great advice from the boys.

My first 3 months of internet dating have been a real eye opener. From a girl fainting on me in a bar to a doctor turning up looking like a street walker, its been a real mixed bag. I have noticed how a woman's clock starts ticking from their early thirties and how this can turn some into a bit of a fruit loop - Settle down, as a desperate lady is not an attractive one. All bar a couple have dates been really decent , so a big pat on the back to the girls from London and the surrounding areas.....

As for the guys, if you have any sort of charm and wit, you ll do just fine. Having spoken about previous dates with some of the girls, the benchmark doesn't seem that high. As I've told my friends, half the work has already been done by the time I turn up on a first date. The reason she is meeting me is my predecessor's weren't cutting the mustard, so her expectation is already low. With a bit of good banter, backed up with a decent happy hour drinks list, you're half way to success.

I've had great fun so far and will be back next week, rested and ready for a new batch......